ROMANCING UR HUSBAND

How to Romance Your Husband
By Susan H Pardoe
How to Romance Your Husband
'You\'ve been married for a few...ok, several years, but you\'d like to find ways to romance your husband. First, is the romance still there or will you need to start from scratch? Does your stomach still flutter when he walks into the room? Does he still flash you that smile that says, "I love you!"? Romance does NOT have to die once you\'ve been married for a time. Ladies, there are ways to ignite the spark and romance your husbands all over again. It just takes a bit of thought, time, and a desire to put a bit of spark back into your marriage. Here are a few thoughts on how to romance your husband.';

Instructions
Difficulty: Moderately Easy
Things You’ll Need:
A bit of thought on what it is that speaks to your husband's heart.
A bit of creativity
A bit of your time throughout the week
Candles/matches
A favorite dress or ensemble
His favorite meal
Paper and pencil
Colored pens or pencils
Step1What speaks to your husband's heart? This is where romance truly begins. Our husbands need to know and feel they are respected by their spouse. Do you honor him with the manner in which you handle the monthly budget? Does he feel you appreciate him working hard to support the family? Does he hear praise from your lips about his work ethic, being a great husband or a terrific father? Do you cook his favorite meal now and then, "just because"? If we show our husbands respect and love, they are more likely to feel romantic toward their wives.
Step2Romance your husband by doing special little things throughout the week. For example, when you're sitting on the couch watching a movie together, hold his hand. I know, the remote may be in one, but if he has the other available, grab it and hold on! Give him a smooch on the cheek now and then just to remind him you're there.
Step3Does he take a lunch to work? Does he have a planner he opens each day once he reaches his workplace? Use even scrap pieces of paper and write notes to him that will brighten his day. Get creative, if that's your thing, and color little hearts or what-not on there. Maybe it's a note that tells him how great he is or that you'd like to spend time with him. If you typically wear a scent he likes, lightly spritz the paper with it so he can think on you throughout the day.
Step4Romance your husband by taking him on a date night. Date nights are so important! Even if you have children, TRY to have a date night at least twice a month, if not once a week. Date nights don't have to cost much either. In warm weather, walk and talk in a park. Take along a picnic lunch/dinner with you to enjoy while you sit in a quiet setting. Try to talk about each other...not so much about the little ones at home. They probably get enough of your talk time already, yes?
Step5Cook him his favorite dinner. My husband's favorites consist of pork chops, sauerkraut and potatoes or hamburgers, beans and applesauce. I know, it doesn't sound very romantic, but HE loves it and that's what matters. Have dinner by candlelight now and then and romance your husband over his favorite meal.
Step6Greet him at the door, dressed to the nines (yes, hair and makeup too!), and whisk him off to a hotel for the evening. Or, ask a trusted family member or friend to take your children for the evening and spend the evening at home together with no distractions.
Step7Anything we do ladies to show our husbands they are special will go a long way toward making them feel loved, respected and (in turn) romantic toward us! Romance your husband in ways only he would understand and appreciate. Speak his love language and you can't miss